It never ceases to amaze the level of hypocrisy that runs rampant here in T&T. Two years ago Anya Ayoung -Chee was the subject of merciless negativity, were it not for the unconditional love of her parents, brothers and probably a handfull of close friends and her very own indomitable will and spirit the very same persons tripping over themselves to anoint would all still be washing their mouth on the young woman. Typical isn’t it. We have been down this road many times before. We love you, we hate you, we love you, and we hate you.
This is not the first time nor will it be the last time one of our many talented sons or daughters of the soil will have flown the flag with immense glory, pride and passion. It happens in sport, culture, arts and entertainment almost on a daily basis but yet still. No respect or sincerity only convenient, rhetoric and lip service. Our achievers are punished for being themselves for daring to stand out and be different. Mistakes and necessary failures (learning opportunities) are not tolerated. As Anya was wowing the fashion world on the project runaway show above sea level in Guadalajara , Mexico, four talented and dedicated Trinbagonians won medals for T&T.
The truth cannot be denied. We have seen it in sport over the years. It’s a discussion no one wants to have. How do we as a nation develop the culture and environment where following your passion and dream, doing what you love and taking that passion, talent and ability to the ultimate limit is welcomed and nurtured? It cannot continue to be the case where its only when our citizens achieve that we rush to wallow in the afterglow of their success. It’s like wanting to get to the front of the line without getting in line. Or put another way we have too many people who want to eat from the pie but not enough bakers.
There are structural issues and attitudes including politics, classism, racism and elitism that we must address as a society and nation otherwise the stop and start journey that we have been on since independence will continue. The success that this nation has garnered in sport, art, culture, fashion and entertainment should make many confront the truth. The truth cannot be denied. We haven't begun to scratch the surface of our true potential. The young man or woman you judge and condemn is a shining star and fine example waiting to be discovered.
The sad reality is that for everyone that survives the lack of support, understanding and unconditional love. Many more are dying far too soon either at the hands of each other, themselves, drugs, and HIV aids or at the hands and minds of heartless adults. T&T is a country blessed with abundant talent. Something therefore has to be wrong as too many of our young people are crying out for help, guidance and direction their sprit and dreams broken.
Sport can make a positive difference and as such local sport should have a sense of urgency as neither the truth or the role of sport in moving our society forward can be denied. Sports are no longer just a game. It affects the lives of people. Politicians in the developed and developing world understand the power of sport and what it can achieve for the country and people. Dare to be different and be yourself. Dare to follow your dreams even if doing so will earn you more “frenemies” than enemies. Sport or fashion follow your dreams; listen to the siren song of your heart. Don’t give up. Stay strong. It is always darkest just before daylight. Don’t give up. Wake up T&T! Wake Up! Even as you celebrate many more are missing.
-Brian Lewis
Source: www.guardian.co.tt